toxic masculinity (sp)… the number of ‘bro’s’ that question my gender when they hear about my bidet is alarming. i honestly don’t know when being a nasty, grimey dude became the ‘straight thing to do’ but i’m encountered it enough times to recognize the weird perplexed faces i get. for some perspective, i work in a 100+ yr old building in an industrial setting out in a farming area.

but yeah they can think what they want. i’ll die before i give up my bidet.