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  • Something similar happened to me just last month with the person I called my “best friend”.

    He had been having personal issues for the past year that he can’t figure out on his own, but he’s generally someone who can’t honestly take responsibility for himself and regards his opinion as the word of god, basically.

    He has been putting me down often in the past, even though he said he “always looked up for me for the peace I found”. I never really cared much for those words of his because I knew they came from a place of deep hurt.

    However, he has not apologized once and at some point I started asking myself why I was calling this person my (best) friend. Well, after his last lashing out I just gave up and cut contact. I was trying a lot to help and understand him, but how do you help someone who went to 4 different therapists and called them all incompetent?

    You don’t. They have to figure out that they don’t live in reality themselves, and I was not going to tolerate his disrespect anymore - I have enough other friends who treat me well, and my life honestly has not changed at all. He is not an interesting person anyway, all he can talk about are games, his pain and his delusions.

    So what I’m trying to say is - cut your losses. This person, for whatever reason, does not want to gove you the respect you deserve, and that is alright. There are a lot of others who will, and those are the people you should put your energy into.



  • This AI stuff is annoying me. I don’t work in development - I’m a pentester and recently had to work on some scripts with a colleague.

    He is a few years my senior and basically completely relies on ChatGPT for simple string matching and splitting in bash. I could not believe my eyes. He got ChatGPT to spit out a command that didn’t work exactly as we needed it to because it was looking for the wrong string. It was a really simple fix but he again had to ask ChatGPT for how to fix it, until I was like “let me do it”.

    It’s not that he’s dumb or anything, but I feel like he just grew completely lazy from that and doesn’t even want to think anymore. Later on he was troubleshooting the same script for a few hours until he noticed that ChatGPT output messed up the order of lines and tried to access a variable that was only declared in the next line.

    I think ChatGPT and whatever else are really useful tools, but people tend to use them as shortcuts to learning instead of getting things done quicker. That is in everyone’s own responsibility - I just have the hunch that my job will get way more interesting with a new generation of incompetent developers 😁