Can you imagine being one production error or briefly misplaced fingernail away from ruining your life? Condoms are reasonably safe, but as your only form of birth control and with no access to abortion, i just wouldn’t risk it. Would be 100% no piv for me.
I’m not even in tech. I teach maths at night school to support myself while doing my masters. Somehow I’ve become the ‘computer guy’ at my job. All the teachers and even office staff ask me to explain software to them that I myself have never even used. I need to learn to say no.