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Cake day: July 5th, 2023

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  • Most people feel like this, in my experience. People usually don’t feel totally satisfied with their accomplishments, but will assume everyone else is very satisfied with theirs. In reality, most people feel neutral about their situation 99% of the time, no matter how good it is. Past a certain point, when you’ve accommodated all your lower-level needs like food and safety, the only way to get legitimately happier is to count your blessings and be thankful for what you have, instead of chasing something you perceive as “better”. Those things almost never actually make you happier, especially if they’re materialistic.

    Most people also show to others a fake version of themselves that has basically no problems in life. It’s important to remember that what you see isn’t usually what you get with most people. There are some who present themselves as being extremely happy but are severely depressed. It’s important not to compare your genuine self to people’s front-facing personas.