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  • Lifecoach5000@lemmy.worldtoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlHow to meet people +40yo
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    8 months ago

    Organize a local Lemmy meetup for 40+ year olds! Lol

    I am in my mid 40s myself. I think the default advice is to just find social hobby groups and meet people that way. The more you put yourself out there, the more chance you have to make a connection. Also, I don’t think it’s a problem to be the “odd old lady” - wear that badge with pride IMO.






  • I think this is all personal preferences, but by default many times with an SO you usually are both building towards a common goal together to cement your future together. Again, I’m sure that’s not the case for everyone but I am just speaking generally.

    With a “very good friend” that might not necessarily be the case - but these lines can all get very fuzzy depending on people’s outlooks, perspectives, wants etc.

    I probably haven’t given you much clarity here but I also think many people have wrestled with at one point or another in the dating world.