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Sharing my honest beliefs, welcoming constructive debates, and embracing the potential for evolving viewpoints. Independent thinker navigating through conversations without allegiance to any particular side.

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  • I think that even if EEE is what Facebook is going after here, after a certain point some users will just get fed up with the demands/changes they’re making and move to an instance that is incompatible/defederated with Threads and then we’re pretty much back at where we’re right now.

    Like when reddit gave the ultimatum to switch to their app or stop using reddit we didn’t really have a 3rd option. However if reddit was in the fediverse we could have just told them to have fun with their new platform while the rest of us stay with the old one among ourselves. Sure, you’ll still lose majority of the content there but when it comes to threads we’re not really interested in their content in the first place so it doesn’t matter. If a Lemmy user is willing to play by Facebook’s rules just so that they can stay connected to a bigger userbase then I’m not sure if we’re actually losing anything of a value if and when our ways apart. Facebook can poison the majority of the fediverse but there’s not much they can do with the instances that don’t care if they get defederated or not. The niche instances will continue existing.

    I’m not personally against my instance blocking them but I’m strongly against people pushing their values onto others. I would much rather have individual users block that instance if they so wish instead of someone deciding for them. Sure you can always switch instances but what Fedi Garden seems to be doing here is going against the essence of fediverse and bullying instances to do as they want just like we’re worried of Facebook doing.






  • Federarting means there’s a two-way road between your instance and threads.net and traffic can flow both ways. When you defederate it stops the traffic flow from threads.net to you but the traffic from you to them is unchanged. Even if every single instance defederates them they can still see all the content that’s posted there. Nobody else just wont see any of theirs. Only your instance admins know your email, ip-address and so on but all your posts and messages are publicly available to anyone and you can’t stop them from accessing it.

    It’s basically the same thing as blocking an user. You wont no longer see their messages but they will see yours.

    EDIT: Turns out I was mistaken. Defederation indeed does stop the flow of data both ways.



  • I think most people simply just don’t know how federation works and they imagine that defederating blocks Facebook from accessing your content when in reality it’s the exact opposite; it places one way mirror between us from which only they can see thru. There’s also some great irony in the fact that they’re talking about genocide while advocating for using the nuclear option to block Facebook despite the massive number of innocent casualties it’ll cause.

    EDIT: Turns out I was mistaken. Defederation indeed does stop the flow of data both ways.








  • There are reality checks you can do;

    • Flip a light switch. If the lights come on you’re probably awake but if something else happens you’re dreaming.

    • Try to push your hand thru a wall. In dreams you can do this.

    • Read a piece of text, look away and re-read it. In dreams the text changes.

    • Try jumping really high. If it’s a dream you’ll jump much higher than anticipated or even start flying.

    Keep in mind though that these tests needs to be done regularly and in a serious manner even when you think you’re awake or else the habit wont carry into the dream world. Tell yourself; if my hand hits the wall I’m awake and if it goes thru I’m sleeping. Then do the test and see what happens. Be aware though that your brain is really good at explaining why weird things happen in your dreams. For example I once performed the jumping test and I just took off and went like “holy fuck I’m dreaming” but then I looked back and saw a crane hook attached to my back and went like ahh ofcourse makes perfect sense, nothing weird about that.

    I also want to include a slight warning here. If you do realize you’re dreaming and aren’t immediately waken up by this realization then one thing that’s generally not recommended to do in dreams is look into mirror. The reflection wont be you or the very least it’s not what you expected and this might be really uncomfortable experience. Also; realizing that you’re dreaming may make you anxious and cause your dream to turn into nightmare. You can in theory turn this nightmare back into normal dream by for example hugging the monster but this is easier said than done.

    Happy lucid dreaming!