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  • I have a lot of small bottles and vials waiting to be filled. It started decades ago when I found a quaint little glass tube with a stopper in an antique shop at my favorite beach town and thought it’d be nice to take home some sand from my favorite spot, thereafter becoming a tradition for subsequent visits. Now I pick one up whenever I see one to have a cache available for any future adventures.











  • This is really great advice, I guess the middle ground has always been a bit of a struggle for me.

    This echoed for me, I’ll remember it:

    Privacy maximalism and/or FOSS maximalism etc is natural impulse when you first begin to grasp just how quietly exploitive, invasive, and commoditized the modern internet is. But it also leads to burnout and can be isolating if you are too rigid about it.


  • starlord@lemm.eeOPtoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlFree Internet Non-Believers
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    11 months ago

    That’s easy to say, but it feels to me as if I have to make a choice between engaging and interacting with the people I love or adhering to my beliefs about how I should manage/protect my information. It’s a difficult spot to be in and it’s neither fair that I should have to make that choice nor fair that I should have to force it on others. That’s what’s bothering me.


  • This is the argument I typically get from others (though, not as aggressive). I don’t blame this stance at all; it makes sense and is reasonable. I try to extol the benefits of the alternatives I propose but there’s simply no getting past “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it” attitudes.


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    11 months ago

    A variety of answers, including but not limited to:

    • I don’t want to learn another new thing.
    • There aren’t enough other people I regularly contact using it.
    • I already have this thing, why add another?
    • I don’t care about the benefits of switching so why would I?
    • I like what I have.

    Again, I can understand these reasons. (Especially universal adoption; it’s hard to get someone to switch to a messenger that almost nobody they talk to is using, just so they can talk to you.) But I’ve made my choice for a variety of reasons to which I wholeheartedly subscribe and don’t want to go back, but it’s had the effect of isolating me.–










  • starlord@lemm.eetoRisa@startrek.websiteWhich one's right?
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    1 year ago

    Let’s not forget that these directives originate from vastly different points in “our” moral evolutionary “history,” not to mention technological capability (especially versus the rest of the galaxy) and sense of safety/security. If the SGC were founded in the same century as The Federation, would they have a similar stance?